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Ambrosia
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Posted on 07-28-14 7:12
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After a bit shaky
Sunday yesterday, I decided I won’t have a mundane Monday. The weather in
Kathmandu is as whimsical as a women having PMS. It rains for ½ hour then it
will be SUNSHINE for like 2 hours then again rain the whole rest of the day.
Let me tell you, I just love rain.
But that is not what I
was planning to share. Sometimes when you are ill, you, just look for a better tomorrow. That was exactly what happened to me
today. After a sick Sunday, I was all charged up for a better Monday. And then
it all started.
I am the kind of
person, if I decide to have a good day, I will. You can try really had to screw
it….I will unscrew it back. This lady in my department had developed a very
good imagination that I am her competition.Which again I will take as a compliment. Anyway, the office gave me some more benefits for
my contribution for couple of projects. And I guess she was absolutely pissed with that. I wonder why people can’t be happy for others or let’s say work hard
to outsmart them rather than sitting and whining about it.
So she was throwing
tantrums and giving me a cold shoulder all morning. Did I feel bad? Of course I
did. But I think I brushed it off by feeling bad for her for having such a
small heart. I would have felt similarly but then again, I think I would have
worked harder to be better than her. I started listening to some good music
which indeed helps in such situation. I was out of the little bad feeling I was
having in no time.
Next was my supervisor.
He was giving me a real hard time by not letting me do things I want to do,
that is for last couple of weeks. I guess it is with every immediate
supervisor. They have this big insecurity that if you do well, you will be
promoted and hell! He can’t control you anymore. Or let me be more positive,
you will probably overshadow him more and more and you will be his/her boss.
That is a nightmare for any boss, that his subordinates getting promotion and
rising above him. Remember all the hard time he has given you? Now it’s payback
time….LOL. But no I am not getting any promotion here but his problem is that
he doesn’t want me to grow. So every time I try to be more creative with my
job, he will say “No, it won’t make a difference, let’s stick to the initial
plan”.
So today, I let him
talk for almost an hour in our team meeting and when the almight super boss
asked if we have any inputs, I got up and I explained in detail why it will
not work and what other option do we have for this and the results will be 100%
positive at the end. I was waiting for this chance for a very long time. I could have not gotten a better opportunity to prove
myself than this. If my supervisor tries to make my life miserable and if I
plan to quit, now the super boss will not let me. Finally I am in a very safe
zone. Call me smart or shrewd; I know I have just fought for myself in an
environment invaded by unhealthy dominance.
"Today" had reminded me one more time, that who will fight for their right will survive. She who stands for
her rights will be accepted at the end. I could have been just a worker with no
existence in the work space but I choose to stand and prove myself. I know it
will not be easy from here but atleast I know that I can fight and that is all
that matters for me to survive.
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sajhamitra
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Posted on 07-28-14 7:56
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Enjoyed reading it. Thanks for sharing.
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Ambrosia
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Posted on 07-28-14 9:00
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Sajhamitra, Thank you for liking it :)
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Posted on 07-28-14 9:59
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Posted on 07-28-14 11:37
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It is everywhere. Not only in Nepal, all over america, it is the same culture. You know this when you are the professional for a long time working for different organizations. I am not only talking about the bosses but also some of your collegues try to get credit when they are not suppose to. Favoritism prevails everywhere. The government of america is as screwed as that of nepal. I know this because of my experience working for them.
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Ambrosia
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Posted on 07-28-14 6:26
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Mno, I will second that. There are so many times when my collegues have got away with the credits. With time I have started ignoring it. Coz when they take credit for my idea today.....tomorrow the boss expects him/her to excel and execute similarly ani tyo ta hunne walla chaina:) .....then I sit back and watch the panic story.
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Ambrosia
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Posted on 07-29-14 10:03
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SO today it was payback time... I gave her a cold shoulder...... She needed my help badly...and I remembered....And I let her panic the whole day...and finally did it by the end of the day! Am I the bad one? No......NO ...HELL NO...I am just letting her know who is the boss!!!!
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Posted on 07-29-14 10:31
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Unknowingly you are stressing out, not good for your emotional well-being and overall health. I don't know if it works for you, but it worked for me every time. If there are ppl at your workplace quite obnoxious, it's better to assume they simply don't exist for you. You gotta do what you gotta do, rather than having thoughts of others and letting them occupy your mind all time. I've developed that particular trait on me that I can instantly dissolve their existence in my mind and then all I see is things I needed to accomplish. In another words, it's called 'giving a rat's arse'. Don't compete with them, you just do your things and you'll eventually excel. You don't even need to bring someone down.
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Ambrosia
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Posted on 07-29-14 10:35
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bitter I think you have not read the first of my thread......but just the reply...I am the kind who is always at peace....but if you try to bother my balance....you will not be at peace....and if you ignore these people all the time they will bring them to their attention and then will bring you down...I am in a different league so I guess your not existence idea doesnt work in my case...but again....thank you!
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Posted on 07-29-14 11:40
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I've gone through your every story, this is no exception.
I didn't quite understand this
but if you try to bother my balance....you will not be at peace
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Posted on 07-29-14 11:45
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amrosia जी, मैले पनि हजुरको अरु स्टोरी हरु पढे पनि यो चै पढेको छैन | तर "but if you try to bother my balance....you will not be at peace ".. भने पछि हजुर पनि मान्छे कम खतरनाक चै हुनु हुन्न जस्तो लाग्यो हि हि हि |
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Posted on 07-29-14 6:23
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Lahure jee, Suteko bagh lai nachalaunu bhanthey.....;) hai hai
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