keti haru ko Gunaso, Keta prati........
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If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.

If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.

If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;
If u do he says u are CHEAP.

If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROBLESOME;
If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u. (Bullshit)

If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMENT.

If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS u, u ar e too ! SENSITIVE!!
& sooo hard to please!!!!!

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This is forwarded mail..and I dont think its TRUE as Im not that type of guy

Lovely....

Kina ghat paryo ki kya ho, Dui Chulthi Rato Kapal??????????

Well said

Dui Chulthi Rato Kapal = ladyinred

hehe...shhhhhhhhh

Maile timro Photu tasdiya chhu hai.......mind nagara

how can i mind with someone so amazing... :p Besides good choice... :)

keti ko gunaso ko kura chodera timi haru afnai po gunaso garna lagiyau. K bha hun yi aajkaal ka manis haru....thread ko kura garum na hau!!

- http://www.ginaeaker.com/gallery/digital/ladyinred_op_643x800.jpg

wow Echoes that was simply lovely....

kasaile le rato kapal tasne kasaile le name search garera bhetakho link ko foto tasne...k bha hun yi thitha haru

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Who is this Large, Hairy, Deep-Voiced Person in your Life?
by Marilyn Graman and Maureen Walsh
Authors of the New Book
HOW TO BE CHERISHED:
A Guide to Having the Love You Desire
(Life Works Books, 2004)
INTRODUCTION

This article is written by two relationship experts, Marilyn Graman and Maureen Walsh, proprietors of Life Works in Greenwich Village, which offers a popular series of seminars that help women and men find each other and build satisfying, long-lasting relationships.

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"13 Facts About Men"
by Marilyn Graman and Maureen Walsh
Excerpted from the book, How to Be Cherished

WHO IS THIS LARGE, HAIRY, DEEP-VOICED PERSON in your life?

Do you want your man to be more like you? Do you get frustrated because he's not? It may seem as if he's doing it on purpose to make your life difficult. Yet in all likelihood, your man is not trying to drive you crazy. He's just being himself-and he is different from you. He craves your curiosity and wants to be understood. It's worth taking some time to get to know him. He'll act more lovingly when he feels heard, acknowledged, and accepted-and your relationship will improve by leaps and bounds.

1. He Knows how powerful you are.

Your man is well aware of the power you have in his life, even if you don't always realize it yourself. You affect him strongly, and he is responding to you all the time. Naturally, he wants something loving to respond to. Your man wants to be your hero. When you let him be your hero, he feels invincible. How often do you let him feel like a hero? When he can't please you, he is crushed. He will probably cover it up really well because he doesn't want you to know how vulnerable he is to you. When he's crushed over and over, he gives up. When you are aware of your power you can afford to be compassionate, and he will respond well to your open heart.

2. He knows he is vulnerable to you and he can't stand it.

Your man is very attached to you even if he covers it up well. Believe it! In fact, he may be more attached to you than you are to him-and this scares him. He's terrified that he can't make you happy and it makes him feel vulnerable. Being vulnerable is very humiliating for your man. Instead of rushing out to save you from enemies, he's trying really hard to please you and failing. What's a man to do? Act macho, of course. The more vulnerable he feels, he more macho he acts. When he says, "I don't care," "It doesn't bother me"...don't believe it. He does care, terribly. He just can't always afford to show it.

3. Showing vulnerability goes against what most men were brought up to believe about themselves.

When they were little boys, men learned they should aspire to be superheroes. They were supposed to be unfailingly strong and in control, know the right thing to do and say, and never be emotionally affected by anyone-certainly not a woman. How can he admit to you that he feels inadequate when he can't even admit it to himself much of the time?

It is very likely that your man would like to open up to you more, and that the reason he doesn't is that it goes against his belief about how men are supposed to be. His role is to be the defender and provider. That leaves no room for emotional neediness. The times when your man acts like he doesn't care are probably the times he's feeling the most vulnerable, inadequate, and unheroic. Chances are, that's when he needs your support and love the most. Giving it to him then will encourage him to ask for it more in the future, rather than acting macho or shutting down. And when he's open to you, it will benefit your relationship.

4. He is more sensitive than you are.

You know how humiliated you feel when you get criticized, especially in public? Multiply that by a hundred and that's how humiliated your man feels. He may not allow you to see his sensitivity because it doesn't fit in with his belief that he needs to be strong and invulnerable. But he is acutely sensitive to your treatment of him. When you criticize him, it means he's failed to be your hero, and this damages his sense of his own manhood.

It's bad enough to put down your man in private, but criticize him in public and you can be sure you will experience the repercussions later. He may laugh along with you, but he will hold it against you for a long time. He may not tell you he's hurt, but he is-and you will pay.

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You don't have to understand men. You just have to understand one man, that is your husband.

Don't get flustered if you do not understand him right away, you have both of your lifetime to get to know each other.

That's how I would see.