dear friends,
it s been a worthiest thing for me to get my love since 2000. i use to think of her every day , and one day i proposed her but in a very public way. and she said that she cannot think about it though i proposed her after one and half years of strong determintaion while i was her college mate. i dont know what is my problem , but i still i love her, its already been six and years she is all around me , wherever i see i just see her as if i am bound to see her. she is now in india and i am in usa , if she opens her arms for me i am ready to give up everything and would go to her. i have her phone number but i cound not dial it . i dont know what the psychic problem i am having. i need good suggestions from you all guys. please review it as it is your own problem.
The alphabets of her name : lpasa
and
mine is : lhchaa
And please share yours story to console me.

life is not a movie where the actress has a change of mind and comes back to the hero.
it's evident that she doesn't have such feelings towards you.
u're ruining your present. i know it's easier said than done but that's the truth n u need 2 face it fren.

I would say give it a shot. You still have feelings for her but is she still available? Give her a call and let her know how you feel, if she has feelings for you she will come. If she doesnt then say "halluyah" and move on..

Hydrogen Sulphite ji plungent smell dinne tapaiko character ho.yo bissesta ta vayena vannae tapaiko pahichhan nai rahadainna. huna sakkcha tapaiko lhchha lae tyo mann paraudinenn.so move ypurself to isocyannate............ani lets c.......

I dont think waiting would EVER work in my life, i mean waiting is like a total waste of time, if someone likes you, he/she would tell it right away, 6 YEARS is crazy, me maximum to 6 weeks, oh make that 3! not even!

Hydrogen_Sulphide ,

I think its your duty to let her know how you feel (aba no one can read whats on your mind ). You dont want to think to yourself "what if I had told her, wud it be different". Tyespachie,whatever the answer will be- be ready to accept it with an open mind. May be positive, and may cause you pain - but its aar-ya-paar!

Good Luck :)

hey dude look lifes 2 short 2 hide feelings so call her n le her know b4 its too late yaaar cuz if sum1 else skes her n she say yes shez gunna b gone 4eva..so do it n so it fast.. dats if u want her bakk

damn....hydrogen_sulphide i feel for what you have been going thru yaaaaaaaar.
sometimes it's no point chasing your dream but again your heart dosen't listen to you right. damn i am feeling pain now.
................................................it's hard to understand the girls.
maybe if you were rich she would have said YES to you in the first place.
i cannot you good advice cause i do not know what to say though i know the feelings and it hurt sooooooooooo much that ..........sometimes i feel like killing all these bi

i'm going to get some jack daniel now........i don't want to talk again. i wish you could join me

hydrogen sulphide i agree to what brilliant brunnete is saying so just call her up and tell her about how you still feel and if the answer is still no then get over it man..... life is too long and you dont want to spend this long time just thinking what if you just called.... just think about the last 6 years you spend thinking about her....

i think people here are missing the fact that he had already proposed her a couple of yrs ago.and she said she couldn't think abt it. so you guys still think he should brood over her?

TARA 3 Y3ARS iS A LONGTiM3.. SH3 MiGHT HAV3 CHANG3D H3R MiND Ni.. H3Y HYDRO TRY ONC3 MOR3 K iTS B3TT3R TH3N NOTHiNG

may be she could think about it now..... what is the harm??...

lonely it doesnt matter that i tried to hook her once but day after day i am getting more and more passionate for her. the level of my love is getting more and more deeper and i think that i should do everything to induce her feelings that would coerce her to put me in her heart.

So, H2S pal,
do let us know what happens when you confront her with your more passionate feelings all right?

Dear H2S.

I think you are greatly affected by hindi movies. I can envision you as the hero who has this hesitation in the beginning to propose his love coz otherwise the movie will finish off in no time. So he gives her pursuits, starts singing song like " Samhaale hai maine bahut apne dilko, jubaan main phir bhi tera naam aa raha hai". You feel butterfly in the stomach, whenever you think about her, imagine her in your arms. You feel so romantic, you won't dare talk to her though, coz you want yourself romanticizing in those vague dreams more than anything else.

Days go by, then months, then years.....


*Smack*. Sorry dude that was just a gentle blow on your head to stop you from dreaming and fantacizing. Come to the reality and wake up dude. There is nothing like the *love* which those movies depict. Real life is lot of fun without those so called romantic hindi songs. Wake up dude, grow up... Say no to love and move on. Life is beautiful without it.