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Posted on 04-26-07 2:05 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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As promised weeks ago, I'm creating this thread to share my own personal experiences that the first-time OC goers ( in a couple of weeks ) can relate to and make some money to support their college education. I hope that the ones who've gone to Ocean City in the past will add their personal tips and experiences to the ones who're going there for the first time.

First off, If you're in the U.S. as a college student requiring the spend around 10-18000 bucks for the college expenses ( plus other ) , you're foucked like myself and thousands of other Nepalese. I'm pretty sure that you ( just like myself ) ignored tips from other friends who had already come here. But now that you're here, you're up for an uphill task which will see you experiencing the never don before tasks over the course of next 4 years ( and beyond ).

I'm sure that most of the students falling under this catagory are pondering upon what to do now. OC, Estes Park, Virginia ( relatives ) , Texas/Minnesota ( Good colleges at prices made affordable by working a lot of hrs / Good colleges with cheaper prices ) , NYC, Boston and so on. But since this thread is meant for OC goers , I'll concentrate on OC.

Back in Spring of 2005, I was going through the same thing, same dilemma. I had to earn! Somehow, somewhere. OC was where I looked up to go. I regret my decision to board a grayhound bus as 36 hrs that it took me to get to OC were the most tiring hrs that i've spent all my life , travelling that is. Somehow, me and my friends made it to OC and we reached OC at 11 45 pm! The other fellow Nepali students who were going to allow us an overnight stay lived in 14th Street ( 14 blocks ) and none of us had any clue about the bus route!

The following week(s) were spent looking for jobs! "Are you guys hiring?" would ring on my mind even on my dreams. I felt embarassed and everytime I asked "Are you guys hiring?" , I felt patheticism! I'd return back home, late on the evening with tired legs! The apartment's setting didn't help the cause much either. 9 of us living in a 2 bed-room apartment meant that some would be sleeping on the floors, some on couches, some on beds! We were looking for more people to share the apartment with though! Sharing the 1 and 1/2 bathroom with that many guys was horrible itself. But nothing else could be done. Luckily, I found a job! Kitchen Crew in McD. Boy! Wasn't I excited! Then I found another job - A crab house. Relentless hard work, lack of sleep got me weaker. The apartment was getting messier, stinking more day after day as nobody bothered to clean. I was hating every second of it. I just couldn't wait for the summer to end. Slowly but surely my summer did end. I ended up returning back with 4400 dollars much lower than what I was expecting as I had 1800 dollars with me when I left for OC. There were tons of people who made less than me and some lucky ones who made WAY more than what I did. For some, OC was a place to be! For them , The Atlantic Ocean, The Beach, Parties, Russian Chicks ( Tons of us end up having at least one Eastern European seasonal girlfriend to satisfy the basic Human wants , I didn't ) , Ganja, Summer itself and the own "income" was more than they could've expected. Perhaps I fall below 1% of all the Nepalese who've been to O.C. who just cannot stop loathing the stay in O.C. I still hate my stay and decision to spend my summer in Ocean City till this day and I can never forget it! O.C. never felt like the place to be for me. While tons of people our ages ( yanks of course ) would be gearing up to go to bars ( seacrets on 49th )and clubs at evenings, I'd be returning and sharing the same bus with sweat and tiriness all over my body. Furthermore, the hypocritical Nepalese that I met out there doing nothing but showing off just because they came a year or so prior to me! Damn.

Anyways back to what you should be doing/shouldn't be doing.
- Don't look to stay on jobs on Fast Food restaurants ( Mcd, Taco Bell/KFC, BK ) as they cut your hours after abt a month that you get hired. If you do get hired in these places, try to make sure that you work as a cashier as I'm telling you by experience, working on an order of 20 double cheeseburgers at 2 in the morning is freaking ridiculous. A cashier won't need to work as much.
- Don't hesitate to go to Condoniums and Hotels. If you're a GREAT swimmer or well built, go to those places and ask if they're hiring and swimming pool attendants/security officers. I can still recall one of my friends who'd NEVER swum before working as a SP attendant.
- Try to apply for jobs as Front Desk Clerks on hotels/motels.
- Learn to Lie. If someone asks when your school starts, tell them that it doesn't start until the third week of september and you go to school in Ohio. ( Schools in Ohio usually dont start till october and also, your employers want to hire people who're willing to work until labor day , one of the biggest holidays in the U.S. that falls on Sept 4). I urge you to lie as there is no guarantee that you will be working on the same place all summer.
- Keep your eyes and ears open. Even if you get hired, try to look for a reliable work place where you find job security/more hrs. Anything that pays over $8.00/hr could be considered good ).
- Try to find jobs near the place where you live. Say if your apartment is in 21st street, don't go looking for jobs in 132nd street as you're gonna spend over 2 hrs EVERYDAY once the summer picks up. You won't get bus rides as the buses will be JAM packed after the summer really picks up!
- Privately owned restaurants such as Billy's Sub Shops, Layton's outlets are going to be best bets.
- If you're asked about experiences, LIE without hesitation. They're going to hire you anyways.
- Avoid looking for jobs in board walks as you're likely to get sent home early if it rains!
- If you're a girl, try to go and look for jobs on Jewellery stores, front desks ( tons of guys work as front desk clerks as well ) and restaurants ( wait staffs ). Wait staffs end up making good money depending upon the shifts!
- For the first week or so, ignore what you're offered. I mean any shift/any payment. Remember what I said before, ALWAYS KEEP YOUR EYES AND EARS OPEN and always look for better.
- If someone tells you to come the following week, don't give up! If you're told to come again, don't hesitate to go again.
- Try to reduce spending. If you're a crackhead/pot head, you're likely to save over 500 dollars! Also note : Saving is the biggest income. Spend wisely , but don't be a miser!
- If you're not getting hired then don't panic. You'll get hired eventually. Meanwhile if you've got relatives/places to go to where you could get to work for 50-60 hrs a week, don't hesitate to go there.
- Look out for fun and adventure! Go out! Explore and exploit what's being offered. Russian chicks! The Ocean! The summer! Don't hesitate. Remember what Mark Twain said : "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do...so...Explore. Dream.
Discover."
- As you're already here in the U.S, you're already foucked. There's no use repenting now. You can build a good future by working your arse off ( if you got an opportunity that is ).

There are rumors concerning INS raids and so on. I wouldn't ignore it as the present Bush Government has vowed to crack down on illegal immigration. But then again, we're not illegal immigrants. Most of us work without legal working permits but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't. In all fairness, do we have an option of not working?! I have working permit and if I went to O.C. the chances of getting good jobs are pretty high, but even till this day and for the rest of my life, I shall always loathe the life in O.C. I hated it and i'll always hate it but since this is your first summer, you have limited choice. Try to make the most out of it. Hope whatever I shared helped. I urge other fellow Nepalese who've been to O.C. to share their ideas as well.
 
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Posted on 05-14-07 2:34 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Bansie - Do you really have an option not to?
 
Posted on 05-15-07 12:32 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Balbhadra ....dude....finally, i am driving OC this thursday...will be there sometime friday afternoon.....are u gonna be there....man we gotta party hard sometime....afterall we both are argentine soccer fan amigo!!!.............send me an email if u could
 
Posted on 05-15-07 1:00 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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lol Bansie. I'm in cali at the moment ( gonna be here for the summer ) but I got friends who're going to play in OC this summer ( indoor league competition I hear ) . There's a soccer stadium ( indoor ) or something in 4th street I heard. I didn't get to play during my only summer in OC back in '05 as I didn't know about it. Hope u'll have fun.
 
Posted on 05-15-07 1:04 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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OC was enough for me in 2004 summer man .....05 & 06 was pretty kool in michigan and now I aint got no option since I am in a small town ....gotta graduate man...wot to do!!!
 
Posted on 05-15-07 1:34 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Good luck then!
 
Posted on 05-15-07 1:38 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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EVERYYEAR NEPALI MAKE A NAME IN OC. SO MAKE SURE THAT ANYONE GOING TO OC CONTINUE THIS TREND AS LAST YEAR.

I'M COMING TO OC BUT FOR VISITING AND RELAXATION PURPOSE.
SO HOPE TO CATCH UP WITH YOU GUYS IN OC.
 
Posted on 05-15-07 1:49 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Sajhakohero? Why'd you choose Ocean city for "Visiting and relaxation purpose"? It's just a polite inquiry kina bhane malai tyo kura chahin ali pachena. Why'd you prefer O.C. over the beaches in Florida or Mexico? Where will you be staying/dining? Like i said before, It's just an enquiry.
P.S. Are you going to rent a condominium for the summer or an apartment?
 
Posted on 05-15-07 2:16 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Balbhadra dahling it's alright about the enquiry. why OC over florida or mexico?
because dahling i haven't been to OC yet in my life. this is the first time i am visiting OC.
so i got no idea how OC looks although only seen in the picture but i can't trust the picture until i feel it and experience it.
secondly i know many guys and gals are talking about coming to OC to work as usual. therefore i would like to bumb into some of you guys and gals. who knows i may bumb into you dahling.
thirdly OC is only 3-4 hours drive from my apartment. so this is my choice for destination to visit this year cause i need to come back home asap because i be taking summer class and also due to work.

staying i have to see. i may just stay 1 to 2days depending on my mood and schedule.
i could stay in motel or just relax by the beaches.
dining. i can't say this cause OC has tonnes of restaurants which i assumed.

to everyone coming to OC, good luck, work hard and don't forget to enjoi and help your comrades if needed. and yes don't forget to take your vitamins.

dahling are you also coming to OC?

good luck comrades
 
Posted on 05-15-07 2:42 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Are you on crack or something sajha? Are you telling me that even though you live 3-4 hrs off OC this is gonna be your first trip or ( first relaxation/visit )? Your highness, Tokyo ko kun chahin restaurant ma Japanese khana banaundai ho kunni? Baru thaha pauna. Hamlai pani alikata Japanese Sushi taste garna man lageko thiyo!
Comrades? Dahling? Are those some common terms used by "japs" in Tokyo-khohero?
 
Posted on 05-15-07 3:16 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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dahling Balbhadra don't be serious lah. actualli ha dis is my first time relaxation/visiting in OC mah. paisay lor but ha what to do never been to OC even though this would be my 3 years in Merica.
so i donno how the OC experience is but since every comrades always say OC OC OC during dis time, i assumed must be nice. nice or not you tell me also veri good.

"Your highness, Tokyo ko kun chahin restaurant ma Japanese khana banaundai ho kunni? Baru thaha pauna. Hamlai pani alikata Japanese Sushi taste garna man lageko thiyo! "

dahling sure you want to eat susi. cauze i lope susi. ok ok if you come to OC i be visiting dis place comrade.

YOKOZUNA JAPANESE RESTAURANT
Susi & Sake Bar

114th St. & Coastal Hwy.
Ocean City, Maryland
Located in the Gold Coast Mall

Hours:
Open Monday - Sunday
Lunch: 12pm - 3pm
Dinner: 5pm - 10:30pm

Reservations strongly recommended

Yokozuna offers:
beer, sake, wine and select liquors
Take-out is welcome
Catering is available

susi anyone! dis is for you.

 
Posted on 05-15-07 5:59 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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khohero le kati khokeko ho bhanya? America ma 3 barsa baseko ke thiyo, ho khokehero ta 300 barsa dekhi nai yetai basdaiayeko jasto dhakku khokcha ba! Ki katai Native indian ko nati ta haina yo khoke ko hero?
 
Posted on 05-15-07 8:48 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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dear Balbhadra bro, I dont know how you find so much busy time in your busy life to spend so much time in sajha.com. Seems pretty amazing to see posting by u in every thread.

Well its nothing that concerns me, just curios. seems like u had pretty rough time out there. sorry to hear ur story bro.

you know on the other hand though dont u think its an experience that makes one young and new Nepali boy more stronger and well known guy about the life. both mentally and physically. i can just sense it from your writing that you are so much more grown now than u had been before. I think that OC must have gave u something that helped u get here.

And u know one more thing. I think u r gonna go back to OC again, since u r a veteran now for that place ::))) and already know what to do like those other hypocritical Nepalese you mentioned.
 
Posted on 05-15-07 12:05 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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if u are 3 hrs drive away from OC and and been living there for 3 years and yet u have not been to OC.....I dont believe it......may be u dont have liscence/car or u must a real dumb fu(k.....
 
Posted on 05-15-07 4:19 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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To be honest with you bigtalk, Sajha.com has been an addiction. In some ways it's a good thing as Sajha.com has forums and threads involving anything or everything I'd rather say. Be it politics, sports, music, India, Asia, H1 Visa, DV lottery , Green Card, Working, Experiences or travelling! We can enhance our knowledges on Nepal and about the Nepalese communities on a massive scale by reading the posts. My only problem is that I can't and never let any bullshit slide by easily. You can always find me mocking the maoists, the dirty scumbags ( Girija and co ) and the ordinary hypocrites ( us nepalese that is ). I never tolerate idiots as well.
I'll have to admit that OC made me a stronger person and helped me grow up! From the luxuries and comforts back home to finding myself working for up to 19 hours a day wasn't an enjoyable experience. I intended to let others know and share my experiences so that people could relate it with their own experiences as well. Also, I've received tons of feedbacks from the sajha users about my tips on OC. I'm not going to OC this year, I didn't go there last year too. I know that I might've made a lot of money by going there but decided not to because for me the OC experience was haunting enough to keep me away from it for the rest of my life! Most of my best/closest friends are at OC though! Some of them had the best times of their lives out there they say, wish I did too.
Bansie bro, I'm glad that you got my point. Yo muji Sajhakhohero jasta pakhandi ra nachahine dhakku lagaune manche chahin ma tolerate garnai sakdina ke. Ocean City bata 3 hr para baschu re ani 3 barsa baseko bhaye pani gayeko chaina re. Muji 3 tai summer ma McDonald's ko kitchen ma Chicken nuggets fry gardai basya thiyo hola khub dhakku lagauna khojcha. Ajha "Visiting and Relaxation" re. Yo ke raja ho ra visit garna jana lagya? Ali bhanne tarika huncha ni.
"yaar ma 3-4 barsa OC bhanda 3 hr ko drive ma basera ni OC gayeko chaina. Yo pali OC kasto raicha herna man lagya cha" bhanya bhaye bhai halthiyo ni. Muji DV parera ayeko hola. Furti bhane katro ho bhanya!
Anyways, Bansie you can hit me up once you reach O.C. and you can play w/ my friends.
 
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Balbhadra and Bansie, or should i call B&B think america is only OC. the two morons
think by going to OC and working their S-off think they have make it BIG in their life ya.

suckers................you think OC is the only place in usa is it for students to go and work during summer. salay kukur horu still drinking milk when i was already learning to drive talk BIG ya.

just because i live 3-4 hours away from OC and has been here in USA for 3 years think i should have at least visited OC. these are the thinkin of kathays. there are millions of americans and some has lived their whole life and died without ever going to OC.
some do not even know if OC is in usa. yet for these 2 kathays OC is everything.
 
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SajhakhoHero........I repeat it one more time ...."U are a dumb fu(K".........and u just proved it posting this cheap a$$ comment .....negger, stick ur butt back there in gayish Japan u dumb fu(k and quit being fake u fag!!!
 
Posted on 05-16-07 4:30 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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AYOOOOOO Bansie BOYA.......WHY ARE YOU INSULTING JAPAN SUCKER?
SALAY DHOTI IN NEPALI DISGUISE COMING TO SAJHA TO START ANOTHER HANGAMA.
SCARED MAH SO HA DON'T PLAY PLAY WITH ME. YOU DONNO ME WHO I AM YET YOU SAID ALL THOSE THINGS HA. DON'T REGRET IT LATER DHOTI.
 
Posted on 05-16-07 6:48 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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SajhakhoTRASH...u SOB......U might be be dhoti mofo not me ....I am pure gorkhali u dumb fu(k.....!!!
 
Posted on 05-16-07 8:47 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Dhantaraan!!!! :-)
 
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Bansie tell me where you be working at OC?
 



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