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Posted on 05-10-07 8:49 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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By Trushar Barot
BBC News


It's hard to find a way out of the trudge of the daily commute, but some are finding meditation can help. And, don't worry, the lotus position is not a must.
Crowded, noisy, smelly, boring. Those in the rat race put up with this on their daily commute to and from work.

We are spending longer - and crossing greater distances - than a decade ago. The UK tops the European league table for having the longest average commuting time at 45 minutes.


No wonder commuting is seen by many as the most stressful part of their day, an activity hardly leavened by Dan Brown's latest or a sudoku puzzle. But for some, having a regular slot away from the pressures of home and work allows them time out to meditate.
Amisha Bhavsar, 30, does precisely that. She works at the Inner Space meditation centre, run by the Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University, in London's Covent Garden. As well as using the Tube to get to and from work, she uses public transport to travel around the city in the course of her working day.

"It's one thing offering people the opportunity to take a break from the working day when they come to us. But I've found that the quality of my experience at work is largely being set by my state of mind during the journey from home to my desk," she says.

Inner peace

Research for the RAC Foundation has found similar benefits for those commuting by car. In a 2003 study, it found that if a driver gets into the right frame of mind, they can finish their daily journey in a more serene state than when they began it.


MEDITATING TIPS
Listen to light music or meditation commentary
Take slow, deep breaths
Imagine a relaxing place
Accept noise and confines of your journey
Write positive affirmations
If standing, put bag down and relax body and mind
On bus or overground train, take in the view
In a traffic jam, shift mind into neutral and relax body

"The type of thought that occurs when driving is actually very similar to the type of brain activity that takes place during meditation," says Conrad King, who carried out the research for the RAC.
"The logical part of the brain tends to disengage leaving a lot of people driving on mental 'auto-pilot' and the driver is then free to contemplate all matters, from the meaning of life to the reason why traffic lights seem to always turn red against them."

Tim Malnick, founder of Meditation at Work, a consultancy that works with individuals and companies, says that many people have a misconception about what meditation is and so don't understand how it could be used while commuting.

"A lot of people think it's all about sitting down cross-legged and closing your eyes. But if you look at the meditation traditions from the East, they clearly demonstrate the importance of transferring this state of mind into all your daily activity. It's about becoming more aware of the environment around you and feeling comfortable with it."

Time out

Part of the reason that commuting is seen as such a stressful experience is because we feel we have so little control over that environment, says meditation teacher Matthew Earl, who used to clock up 40,000 miles a year in commuting for his job as a sales rep. Then he moved to London and started using public transport.


"I used to quite enjoy driving, it was personal time that I valued and it was an environment I felt relaxed in. Having to trade that in for the bus or the underground was really difficult - I couldn't stand the commuting experience."
While reading a book or newspaper kept his mind occupied, he found even that to be draining. Now, he uses meditation to relax mind and body.

"The first thing is to just mentally relax. With your thoughts, step away from what is around you and gently allow your awareness to go within yourself and emerge a sense of stillness and peace. Slow your breathing down and try and let your thoughts settle. Listening to light music or even meditation commentaries has been really helpful too."

It all sounds very soothing, but does it work? As a seasoned, though not season-ticketed, meditator, I thought I'd give it a go.


I get to the bus stop in plenty of time and wait. And wait. And wait. After 25 minutes, the 220 to Shepherd's Bush arrives. Not one bus - but three.
The usual commuter chant in such situations would be unrepeatable here, but instead I plant a different thought. "Wait. There's nothing you can do, so calm down. The boss will not shout if you're a few minutes late."

My heart-rate drops almost instantly, but jolts on hearing the dulcet tones of 50 Cent, which a kindly school boy at the back is treating his fellow travellers to. Too much of a coward to ask him to lower the volume, I realise this is the perfect test of my meditation techniques.

I don't usually seek inner peace to a hip hop soundtrack, but it's surprisingly easy to turn the volume down inside my head. I pass the rest of the journey with a serene smile on my face.

It's enough to have me looking forward to my return journey home.
 
Posted on 05-10-07 9:28 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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So that's what the grand master has been up to lately, huh? :)

BTW, how was the Chivas Regal event last night - did you go?
 
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Ha ha ha !! :-)
Nah I did not go yesterday. I slept instead(work has been pretty hectic lately). But I am going tonite and then to DnB latr on. Capn' you should try that sometimes(meditation). It does work. I just close my eyes, clear my mind, and just listen but do not react to anything, just breathe in and out.....just keep yourself in that state of mind for as long as you can. You will be surprised how you feel after that.
 
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LOL BC - yeah, maybe I will give it some serious thought.

I did think of Vipasana once, but the first session was something like 13 days or somewhere there. I don't think I could devote that much time to meditation at this time in my life.

Your technique seems interesting thought. Worth a shot. If I ever try, I'll let you know the results :P :)

Have fun tonight.
 
Posted on 05-10-07 11:41 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Yeah my mom was really into Vipasana.
Me I do not like to be confided to just one way(in other words Vipasan says my way or hghway). I like to do things my way and wha I feel comfortable with. I say,'Do what works for you and not follow anyone.'

and when I am in that state all sorts of thoughts cross my mind..like things that are bothring me, things that make me happy, sad, laugh all sorts of emotional states. But I let those thoughts pass through my mind and not react to it. Helps me look at things from different perspective, helps make mind think clearer.
 


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