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Posted on 10-30-07 9:39 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Ascites victim tortured for ‘illicit pregnancy’

Kantipur Report

KATHMANDU, Oct 30 - She was harassed, beaten and ostracized by both her family and by society just because her stomach became enlarged. She was even forced to name a person who made her "pregnant".

The more the stomach of Sunita Ram, 16, of Hasarpur VDC-9 in Siraha district, grew, the more she had to suffer physically and mentally. Unable to bear it any longer, Sunita, then 15, even named an innocent man as the person who had made her pregnant. The health post at Lalpur VDC also said she was with child.

The fact that she was suffering from ascites (or fluid deposition in the stomach) came to light only after she failed to give birth even after completing 10 months of her supposed pregnancy.

Sunita has now been brought to Kathmandu through the initiative of Dikchhya Chapagai, chairwoman of Pabitra Samaj Sewa Nepal. Sunita is receiving treatment at Bir Hospital, which is providing it to her free.  However, Sunita's brother and sister, who don't even have proper clothing to cover their bodies, also have no relatives in Kathmandu to turn to for any kind of support. They are so down and out they can hardly afford any care and support for Sunita.

According to the hospital report, there are10 liters of water in her stomach. The reason for deposition of the water has not been identified even after three days of investigation. On Monday evening Sunita was taken for a CT-scan. 

When Sunita was accused of being pregnant before marriage, she had to suffer alone. However, after she was diagnosed with ascites, it was members of her family who were made to suffer. Sunita's family was forced to organize a party for the whole community bedsides paying Rs 500, as fines for accusing an innocent man of making her pregnant.

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In-laws ‘try’ to burn woman alive

BY JANAK NEPAL

BANKE, Nov 2 - In yet another instance of violence against a woman over dowry, one Imtihaad Halwai of Nepalgunj Municipality-5 and members of his family reportedly tried to burn his wife alive Thursday.

However, the victim -- 19-year-old Sakira Khatun -- managed to escape unharmed and reach her blood relatives, her clothes drenched in kerosene.

"My husband and father-in-law held me while mother-in-law poured kerosene on me," Khatun told the Post, narrating the harrowing incident. "However, as she was trying to light the matchsticks, I managed to escape from their clutches and flee."

The Halwai family had been torturing her ever since her wedding two years ago for not bringing enough dowry. She also disclosed that they burnt her cheeks and arms with a heated panyu (serving spoon) just two months ago.

"They used to torture me frequently as my father couldn't fulfill their demands for a motorcycle and three lakh rupees in cash as dowry," she said, showing the burn marks. "Sometimes they threatened to kill me with electric shocks while at others they threatened to burn me alive."

She also claimed that the Halwai's family snatched away all her possessions. Her one-year-old daughter is still with them.

The woman has filed a complaint with police, demanding action against her assailants.

Abdul Ajij, father of the victim, who came here all the way from Gonda in India, demanded stringent action against the perpetrators. "My daughter should get justice. What can be a worse matter than this for a poor father?" he asked with a choking voice.

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sad to here such things in nepal.
 
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What a shame for Nepalese we are hearing these kinds of brutal atrocities time and again.Why don't the law makers enforce a strong law against these atrocities so that no one ever dare?


 
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School Spirit

In the Nov. 14 issue of City Paper, the story about a sincere effort by Catonsville native Christopher Heun to reopen and construct a school in remote Ramche, Nepal ("Distance Learning," Mobtown Beat, Nov. 14), is extremely appreciated. I would like to thank journalist Randy Leonard for such a wonderful presentation on the Mobtown Beat pages. I am a freelance journalist of Nepal currently living in the Parkville-Towson area and had never got the opportunity to read such a story related to Nepal in local newspapers. Thanks to the City Paper editors, too.

The rural areas of Nepal are in such miserable condition that the basic infrastructures and facilities are not available. Lila Tamang is a symbol of a Nepali layman who is struggling to uplift his own village and community. As I am an active Nepali community member in the Baltimore area, I would like to request the other Nepalis and myself to support the Santi School project of Ramche in Nepal. I would suggest to Mr. Heun and his friends Jackie Lesh and Laura Parkhurst to get in touch with Nepali people living in the United States. Approximately 6,000 Nepalis are living in Maryland currently. I would like to thank the Society of Ex-Budhanilkantha Students-North America and the Nationwide Scholarship Program for their effort to materialize a Santi School project. The work of Mr. Heun is highly commendable.

Tarun Poudel
Parkville

Address letters to The Mail, City Paper, 812 Park Ave., Baltimore, MD 21201; fax: (410) 523-0138; 

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रा.च.पा. अर्थात् राष्ट्रिय चर्पी पार्टी


रविन साय्मि

'ह्याप्पी टोयलेट डे'। यस्तो भन्ने र सुन्ने दिन पनि आउँदो रहेछ। अस्ति आयो। 'टोयलेट डे' अर्थात् 'चर्पी दिवस'। अनि 'चर्पी दिवस' मनाउने दिन पनि आउँदो रहेछ। अस्ति आयो। 'दिवस' भनेरै मनाएपछि शुभकामनाको आदान–प्रदान पनि हुनुपर्‍यो। अस्ति त्यो पनि भयो। शुभकामना केको भन्दा १ करोड ४० लाख नेपालीहरू चर्पी सुविधाबाट वञ्चित छन्। उनीहरू मैदान जान्छन् अथवा खुला ठाउँमा दिसा–पिसाब गर्छन्। त्यसैले प्रत्येक नेपालीले सके आजै या भोलि नै या सकेसम्म छिटो चर्पी जान पाउनै पर्छ। हो त्यसै कुराको शुभकामना!

कुरा ठीक हो। कोही भोको बस्न हुन्न, प्रत्येक नेपालीले खान पाउनै पर्छ। यो उसको जन्मसिद्ध अधिकार हो। खाएपछि चर्पी पनि जान पाउनै पर्छ, यो पनि उसको प्रकृतिसिद्ध हक हो। तर अघि नै भनियो, आधाभन्दा बढी नेपालीले यस हकको उपभोग गर्न पाइरहेका छैनन्। आज पनि। संसारले एक्काइसौँ शताब्दीमा पदार्पण गरेको सात वर्ष पुगिसक्दा पनि। किन त?

किनभने घर बनाएपछि त्यसको साथमा एउटा चर्पी पनि बनाउनुपर्छ भन्ने कुराको हेक्का थोरैलाई मात्र छ, धेरैलाई छैन। जहाँ जहाँ मान्छे जम्मा हुन्छन्, जहाँ मानिसको आवतजावत हुन्छ त्यहाँ त्यही माफिक चर्पी चाहिन्छ भन्ने हेक्का जसलाई हुनुपर्ने हो त्यसलाई छैन। त्यसैले त घर हुन्छ, चर्पी हुँदैन। कुनै सार्वजनिक स्थलमा जानोस् चर्पी पाइँदैन। डिपार्टमेन्ट स्टोर खोल्छन्, ठूलठूला 'मल' खोल्छन्। तर 'मानवमल' फ्याँक्ने सुहाउँदो ठाउँ बनाउँदैनन्। पार्क, उद्यान हुन्छ, चर्पी हुँदैन। सयौँ ग्राहक एकसाथ बस्न र खान सक्ने रेष्टुँरा हुन्छ या पार्टी प्यालेस हुन्छ तर ठाउँ सुहाउँदो सफा चर्पी हुँदैन। झकिझकाउ पसल चलाउँछन्, तर अभरमा परेको ग्राहकलाई हल्का पार्ने कुनै ठाउँ हुँदैन। कथम् ती ठाउँमा चर्पी भइहाले छिरी सक्नुहुँदैन। बत्ती, पानी, सफा केही हुँदैन।

अस्पताल र नर्सिङहोम गयो त्यही हाल छ। सिनेमा हल पस्यो हालत उस्तै छ। स्कूल गयो, कलेज छिर्‍यो त्यही हाल छ। बस अड्डा र एयरपोर्टको दुरवस्था उही छ। सरकारी कार्यालयको कुरा गरिसाध्ये छैन। घरमा महङ्गा टायल र सङ्गमरमरका बाथरुम हुने हाकिमहरूले कसरी सहन सकेका होलान् आफ्ना कार्यालयका दुर्गन्ध?

जो फोहोरको सान्निध्यमा बस्छ ऊ स्वस्थ होस् कसरी? अस्वस्थ र रोगी नागरिकहरू भएको देश अघि बढोस् कसरी? यही बुझेर होला मोहनदास करमचन्दले आफ्नो सामाजिक जीवनको सुरुआत फोहोरको सफाइबाट गरे, जो पछि महात्मा गान्धी कहलाइए।

हाम्रामा पनि कोही महात्मा भए शुरु गरे हुन्छ देशव्यापी चर्पी आन्दोलन– चर्पी नभएको ठाउँमा चर्पी बनाउने र भएको ठाउँमा त्यसलाई सफा राख्ने। खोले हुन्छ राष्ट्रिय चर्पी पार्टी। 'चर्पी दिवस' मनाउने जाँगर हुने मित्रहरूले यसबारे गौर किन नगर्ने?


 


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