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 how to get out of bad relation?
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Posted on 08-21-08 11:33 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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i need help how to get out of bad relation?
 
Posted on 08-21-08 11:39 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Move to a new residence, college/school, work, place and get a new number and a new social circle.
Do not be afraid to call the Police when felt threatened.
Save 911 as a speed-dial if in the United States of America now. LOL!

Better safe than sorry. Do what you have to do.



 
Posted on 08-21-08 11:43 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I think it depends, whether you are just b/f, g/f or husband/wife or just friends or family member or so. Just try to think what you did wrong and what the other person did wrong. Do you think you can patch your mistake or the other person can do it.

If not then talk frankly and just be out or as Mr Hyde said run away ! Anyways, hope your relation with whomever it is will smoothen.

Prapta


 
Posted on 08-21-08 11:53 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Advice diney mood ma ke aju!

Bad relationship with whom? Parents? Siblings? Galfren? Baaifren? Husband? Wife? Galfren with a wife on da side? Mistress?

Anyhoo.. whoever it is, here be dem advice:

Hindu ho bhaney...pooja launey ke. anta haat ma paani samauney, mantra pardney, anta paani chhordidiney. You can even get a chindey bahun to help you out so it becomes authentic and all that jazzz.

Buddhist ho bhaney chai thulo moenlam pooja lagauney ra Bodhgaya ma lagera chadaaidiney.

Christian ho bhaney chai special service garney, on a beeeeg sunday morning (no idea when the thulo aaitabaar is though), and Yesu ko naam ma chhoridiney!

Muslim ho bhaney chai organize a stoning ceremony, of course you will put together a "putla" to stone.

Lame jokes aside, kick your shoes, drink a chilled bear with fried chicken wings (buffaloes don't have wings, people!!), and then, gather your buddies up, go to that topless bar in town and have the most fun you can, for the whole weekend. Got to work Monday morning like there is no end to your new found freedom and the accompanying happiness!

Most of them are not worth the pain you go through..(take it from a pro, rey kya!)

I need to do that too! Yeeeaaaaaaaaaah!

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Posted on 08-21-08 11:58 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Tell your partner that you want to have threesome,with him/her..


 
Posted on 08-21-08 12:17 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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be forthright and talk !

want an easy way out?...IGNORE !


 
Posted on 08-21-08 2:24 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Don't call the police unless ur life seems to be in danger  coz it stays in your records for 7-10 years under domestic violence.

 
Posted on 08-21-08 2:47 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Tell him/her that ur not feeling comfortable and say goodbye.

That nite grab a bottle of Patron..Get Drunk...That's yet...

Live ur life....


 
Posted on 08-21-08 3:51 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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First, take some time to yourself to reflect/think about what went wrong. What is it that made your relation bad?
1) Is it something the other person did? Why did he/she do it? What did you do to get it? Was it that you did something first and then he/she did to you that you don't like? Can you think about it? If yes, then the problem is perhaps within you. You should improve yourself first and treat the other person the way you want to be treated. Tell him/her that you are sorry and explain why things happened the way they did. Talk about how you will be different now on and how you want the other person to reciprocate (return favor). Begin life anew and live everyday like it's the only day you have to live.
2) Was it done without provocation? Is it he/she who treats you badly all the time no matter how you treat the other person? Does this other person ever realize that he/she is hurting you?
If this other person always treats you badly and does not realize how you feel, then there is a problem with that person. Talk to him/her. Make him realize his/her problem. If that person realizes it and changes for the good, that's the best that could happen out of a bad relationship. Not only will you have your relationship turn around, you will also have taught a valuable life lesson to a person and in the process earn new respect. Together commit to live happily by treating each other well.
3) Or is it just that you don't like the person? If that's the case, you should not have been in that relationship in the first place. Why are you in that relationship? If it's just boredom of living with the same person, then think twice before breaking up because it's going to be the same with any other new person. The newness loses all its appeal in a few months' time and you will be back to square one again. Therefore, talk with this person. Let that person know what it is that you don't like about. Can he/she see that and change that? Does that person also have a comment about you? How do you respond to that? Try to work out a solution that works for both. If not, walk out of that relationship.
4) If it was a short-term relationship forged through infatuation or visual appeal only, say bye bye. There is no point in maintaining it. But if it's a long term relationship (like marriage), do you want it to work or break? If you want it to work, then you have to do your part before you decide to quit because quitting is easy but life is more complex than that.

 
Posted on 08-21-08 3:57 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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simple. just tell her: you're a good girl,  you deserve someone better and bid her adieu.
that sentence holds truth for both of you in its own ways. in other words, it is lexically, politically as well as contextually  correct, if you think about it.

on a tad bit more serious note, the keyword, IMO,  is: introspection .
no relationship is bad, it's the people who make it seem so.



 
Posted on 08-21-08 4:11 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Momoney!

Where are you? If sleeping, get up now!

Still people are wondering if you are a man or a woman. Loote thinks that you are a woman. I dunno where he got that from.

But really! You put one sentence to describe your problem and you expect us to write volumes to cover solutions for different scenarios. I think that's kind of unfair. "Yo taw ali milena ni". Could you please provide more details so that the solution we can suggest will turn out to be more fruitful?

Momoney! are you ending this relationship because prospect of more money came in the way between you and your partner?


 
Posted on 08-21-08 4:29 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Kill yourself man. If you are asking anonymous people to help you with your relationship problems, you deserve that. Good luck. hope you have a quick, painless death. You are a disgrace.

 
Posted on 08-21-08 4:39 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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o evilgod, naam chai evil god ani suggestion chai evil jasto matra dine..yesto bhayen ni..god jasto pani suggestion dinu paryo...
 
Posted on 08-21-08 4:43 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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find a good relationship..simple
 
Posted on 08-21-08 4:58 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Look at these damn fools...afnai gharma hajar tension hola sajha ma aaera advise didai... hera na yo mr hydelaai ..kati interest lagyaeko ho aru ko problem ma......"Could you please provide more details so that the solution we can suggest will turn out to be more fruitful?" re.......tal tal ka mancheharu
 
Posted on 08-21-08 5:05 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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If you can't join, discard them.

It applies to most relationship.

Ifthey can not overlook your failure and can not tolerate your success, they deserve a discard.


 
Posted on 08-22-08 12:17 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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if u guys r just bf/gf then it's easier. if already married then uggggh a whole mess? btw u don't hv kids, do u? if u do, it wud be heart wrenching for them. if just bf/gf then it's nevr too late...moving to a new place n hvin new social circle wud def work. but first did u try evrything u cud to save this relationship? i just hate sad endings....dun forget to communicate...rem communication is the key in all relationships...
 
Posted on 08-22-08 1:44 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Just Pull out the newest version of "It's not you, its me " CARD man, or better yet if you don't wanna see her again ever - Threesome proposal will work good. She will be pissed as hell



 
Posted on 08-23-08 12:25 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Talk about it and be assured its not gonna work. Or, just keep clinging - your choice.

 


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