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 This is what u call "LUCKY"
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Posted on 05-13-10 4:13 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Nepali butler inherits New York fortune

By Salim Rizvi 
BBC News, New York

Indra Tamang with his daughter Zina (photo: Salim Rizvi)
Mr Tamang and his family are coming to terms with the huge windfall

Until a few months ago, he was a butler in one of the more expensive residential buildings in Manhattan. But now, Nepal-born Indra Tamang is the owner of two multi-million dollar apartments in the same building.

The former owner - his former employer, Ruth Ford - died last year and left the apartments in the historic Dakota Building on the Upper West Side to Mr Tamang in her will, along with a valuable Russian surrealist art collection.

The estate is estimated to be worth nearly $10m (£6.8m).

Mr Tamang is happy but quickly points out that his good fortune did not come easily.

"I am happy and have been humbled by the generosity of the Ford family," he says. "I never expected that I will be given the ownership of these apartments.

"But I have been working for the family for the last 36 years, loyally, with honesty and dedication. So my hard work has been rewarded."

Relaxed masters

Mr Tamang was 21 when he was brought from Nepal as a domestic help by Charles Ford, a writer and a photographer.

Mr Ford died in 2002; his sister, actress Ruth Ford, then took charge and told Mr Tamang that he was like a brother to her after Charles's death.

"Charles was like my father," recalls Mr Tamang. "And Ruth has also been very kind to me and I took very good care of her. She used to lovingly call me 'Tamang darling'."

"They were very relaxed masters who treated me like a member of the family. I travelled with them all over the world."

The Dakota building
Beatles star John Lennon once lived in the Dakota building

Mrs Ford died aged 98. During the last five years of her life, she lost her eyesight and also developed speech problems. Mr Tamang looked after her most of the time and took care of her medicines and food.

He also worked with Charles Ford on various photography projects, which he now wants to keep as the photographer's legacy. He hopes to organise exhibitions of Mr Ford's photographs and compile a book of his works.

With the story of Mr Tamang's inheritance doing the rounds, the Dakota Building has seen an increase in visitor numbers. It also has links with the Beatles star John Lennon, who died there.

A doorman at the gate to the mansion block said he had been busy since morning, answering questions from visitors.

Mr Tamang plans to sell the bigger, three-bedroom apartment to pay the taxes he owes to the government on his inheritance.

He has not yet asked the co-operative board of the Dakota building for permission to live in his apartments.

But, he says: "The rules of the co-op might be a problem, as they require a minimum monthly income to qualify to live as owner of apartments."

For now, he plans to live in his modest home in Queens. "I have my small house here but I am happy with it," Mr Tamang says.

'Hard worker'

He first got news of the windfall last August, when the family's lawyers told him about the apartments left in his name.

Indra Tamang's house in Queens
Mr Tamang plans to stay in his house in Queens for now

However, the biological daughter of Ruth Ford challenged the will in court and the case was not settled until April this year.

The story made it into the press only this week. Since then, Mr Tamang has been interviewed by several TV channels from the US and abroad.

The former butler, now 57, insists that he has not changed at all following the unexpected turn in his life.

"I am the same Tamang as I have been before all this happened and I will remain like this in future too."

Friends have been coming from all over the city to congratulate him.

Friend and neighbour Narbada says: "Indra Tamang is a very honest and good person, always ready to help others. I am so happy for him, he deserves every bit of it. He worked very hard for many decades."

'Safety fears'

But one Nepali community activist, who did not want to give her name, said that many members of the community had not treated Mr Tamang well before the news of the multi-million dollar legacy started making the rounds.

 When I get some money from the sale of the apartment, I will try and pay the mortgage of my home in Queens 
Indra Tamang

Mr Tamang's wife, Radhika, is also not entirely happy with the turn of events.

She says that they have not received any money as yet - but they are still being projected as millionaires. She fears for the safety of the family. The couple have a 10-year-old daughter, Zina, who is also trying to figure out what has suddenly changed in their lives.

Mr Tamang says that he will get much less than the estimated $10m value of the legacy after taxes and fees.

But looking forward to receiving a sizeable sum, he says: "When I get some money from the sale of the apartment, I will try and pay the mortgage of my home in Queens. But I will keep my other apartment and use it for exhibitions etc."

Memoir plans

Mr Tamang was born in a small village called Fahil, in the Makanpur district of Nepal.

Indra Tamang at his home
Mr Tamang's family in Nepal are unaware of his inherited fortune

He says that his mother, two children from his first marriage and his brothers and sisters who still live in his village have no idea about his multi-million dollar inheritance thousands of miles away in New York.

He now plans to visit his family, whom he has not seen for many years.

He also encourages other Nepalis living in America to work hard and be honest in their work.

One day, he plans to write an autobiography, with some help from others. But for now, Mr Tamang plans to take it easy and relax for a while.

He has learnt his lesson from the life of his employers and plans to use his money with great caution.

"I think one should save money for old age. That's when you need it the most to get care," he says.



 
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This is not what you call "Luck". This has nothing to do with luck. It is all about building your trust. It is all about trustworthiness that once upon a time we Nepali used to be proud of (Gurkhas anyone?), now it is mistaken for a "luck".

It's one of the most awe inspiring stories I have read in Sajha lately, and I am happy for Mr. Tamang.

 
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yes this is not like winning lottery. this is honesty....

 
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Nope:  It is called KARMA. 

भाग्य हुँदैमा डोकामा दुध अडदैन। यो उस्को कर्मको फल प्राप्ती हो । 
If he was that lucky , would have own millions of dollars lottery. 

 
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I agree with u guys. But tell me, He was chosen to come US to serve as a cook for an American and end up being a millionaire; isn't this luck? In later part of his life, it was certainly honesty and hard work but he started with his own luck for sure cause not everyone is chosen to be as cook to come to US an turn up to be a millionaire.
 
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but he started with his own luck for sure cause not everyone is chosen to be as cook to come to US an turn up to be a millionaire.
-> I doubt he was picked up from some random people in Nepal to come as cook. There must be something with this guy that made Mr. Ford impressed. Does this wealthy person have to go to Nepali man (sorry for being biased; but he might not be that educated and perhaps had poor english) at that time?
-> Second, do you think that any other nepali or any other personnel will stick to serve the family of person who brought him to US for 3 decades after landing to this land of opportunities?
-> Third, wouldn't there be a reason that her own daughter despite not getting such inheritance said she was "very happy" for Mr. Tamang?
-> Fourth, many people who knew that family mentioned that Mr. Tamang deserves it.

If the above answers don't satisfy you and you still insist on seeing this as a mere luck, please post your own self-made definition of 'LUCK'.

Sorry for making the issue controversial. But I guess, we should use the right word and respect this man's dedication. At least, I certainly lack this quality.

 


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