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 That September never ends...Galt
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Posted on 01-11-06 12:55 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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:( Sorry......
 
Posted on 01-11-06 12:59 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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hey John felt really bad to hear that news but yeah we gotta think that once we come to this world, we have to leave someday!! Its just a matter of time who goes early and who survives till the end!! but when is end?? It was their time this time to get relieve from this nasty world!! I'm sure where ever her soul is, she is reasting in peace!! Just think she is taking a long cold rest
 
Posted on 01-11-06 2:40 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Oh John.....Indeed it's kinda hard to accept the demise of someone who you know..
 
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John,

That was very poignant and heartfelt, and I am well aware that this is likely not what you want to hear...but from someone who's been through a similar situation before, it gets easier to get through the day as time goes on...you just pick up the pieces and cherish the memories and the days don't seem quite as long as I am sure they currently feel for you.

Best Regards,
 
Posted on 01-11-06 4:43 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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A touching and sad piece. It is hard to accept that someone is no longer here. Thinking about it makes me cringe. Condolence to the demised souls and may they get peace after death (if there is something after death!)
 
Posted on 01-11-06 6:13 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Dear JG:

Your writing captured all the pathos of Bedisha along with all those young souls who departed way earlier.

Welcome back, JG!!! By the way, I am missing all those awesome penmanship of our "SITARA". Where in the world is she?

Have a blessed year!
HD
 
Posted on 01-11-06 6:52 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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John,
Very painful indeed! Thanks for dropping by with your loving memories with Bedisha. Though i don't know the departed ones, my thoughts and prayers go out to their loved ones to bear these irreparable losses.

Oh Lord.. have mercy!
 
Posted on 01-12-06 1:12 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Thanks for reading guys,

I am still in denial. Being an effusively emotional person it is often hard for me get in terms with issues like death. Wish all those souls rest in peace.

HD, I have no idea where Sitara is...I have not seen her for sometime...probably should drop a line. As far as I know she was busy with school but since then I am completely unaware of her wherabouts. I miss her posts immensely.
 
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John,

A deeply moving tribute to an individual whose loss must have caused you enormous pain and sadness deep down. I know, one needs a great deal of will to come forward and share an experience of that level, and I applaud your willingness to show us that you do indeed possess plenty of it - the will to speak out. More so heartening perhaps is the display of sincerity and directness with which you recount a sad turn of event that did affect you life one way or another - there is just no better way to pay homage to as well as celebrate a life what was to end so young in a fickle twist of fate. My deepest condolences.

Remembering is a painful affair; it often re-awakens one's bewildering sense of loss and grief but I think, it is also one's embracing of a crucial part of the healing process - the getting over. Not an easy task, mind you because I have been there - the pangs of both sadness and guilt will grip you so sourly without any let-up and no amount of self-consolation can heal the wound easily. Only time will slowly. This has been my experience at least when my grand father died - he was my hero, strict and hard-looking but with so much warmth and kindness at heart for others. One part of his personality that I admired most - something that made me adore him as a person with unbounded obedience. The saddest part of his death was that I couldn't be by his side when he passed away. I was in Hong Kong, busy enjoying my transit break on the way home from England, when I heard the news. It had been more than four years since I had last seen him - little did I know, my time with him four years before would be the very last one. Unfair, don't you think? That was early nineties - years have passed since, and so have any remnants of my sense of pain and guilt. Only his cherished memories to cling to now - I do still miss him though, sorely.

Isn't death an all too cunning tactic in God's poker game when you think about the tricks that He tends to throw at you unannounced? Nature's gruesome reality perhaps - whatever but we are less keen to talk about it, often electing to remain in denial, perhaps because our worst fear lies in contemplating the death of those close to us. I may be wrong.

Let me sign off. Take care John.
Carpe diem
 
Posted on 01-13-06 12:50 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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lahureji,

where had you been? It has been a while....boy did I miss your witty replies all this time. I am glad you are back
 
Posted on 01-13-06 2:57 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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john galt bro..wah wah ;o)....had time to just read one post..and hehe...cheers for makin it easier re kya ;o) hehe..

anyways well worth the read as always...tho that might be a maha understatment as always hehe...anyways well more pls..(cant really comment ..rushn for time and even if i had time..would i be able to comment?duh!;oP hehe)..so good day :oD....and well..ok ok im speechless(typless?hehe) so i shud stop..sheesh why am i still typing?its the bloody missing it thats why!!:@ hehe..nice one as always :oD...

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and oh yah snadhurst bro..so u breathe?;oP hehe..anyways cant really say much...lookin foward to reading wats up there..wat u wrote ;o)...there will be next time i guess...so i go look foward tot hat..for now..yap life and its rush :oS..im being rushed as always :oS..but thats life aint it?glad to see u again..tho glad not might be the right word ;oP hehe...

dun stop blasting that keyboard of urs..if u do have time ;oP hehe...

good day :oD...
*gone*
 
Posted on 01-13-06 3:14 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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John,

Yeah, long time no 'see'. I've been away for a while - work commitments plus a few travelling stints that I have done in between and over the holidays. I trust that your Christmas/new year was good and that the festive period proved to be a restful one for both you and your family. Mine was a pretty humble affair except a few dos that I went to. Nothing particularly fancy. Great to be back.

Have a good day.

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Hi to Nepaali and Flipu too,

Nepaali,
Long time no 'see'. I'm on page 16 of 'On Beauty' at the mo - see, I've been a bad boy over Christmas; did no reading despite having had the opportunity. Too busy poncing out and about - that's why. On 'On Beauty' - I must admit that I am starting to like Jerome Besley more than others and wonder whether he will turn out to be just like the pot-smoking/white chicks-shagging Millat Iqbal, or even the latter's nerdy Anglicised twin brother, Magid. Let's wait and see. And how about the good old Howard Besley? Howie rather. Wait a minute but does not he sound a bit like the neurotic Marcus Chalfen, the 'mouse' man? Where are you, Kiki darling? Dammit, come tell us all about him, will you? Yeah about the weird coffee-drinking half-toff English sod who also happens to be your other-friggin-half, a.k.a. err your hubby? :):)

Samad/Alsana/Millat/Magid - a bunch of lunatic Iqballs eh! Ik-ball - is this how you pronounce their name? Funny accent. Yeah right, is dis how de Kwin's bloody Inglish suppos to look like or what? Ik-bloody-ball eh. Excuse my French! :) :)

Have a good day.
Carpe diem
 
Posted on 01-13-06 3:18 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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My goodness, Anon.

Long-bloody-time no see eh! Sheesh, where in the sansaar, you've been mate? All this time. Wait a minute - isn't what you're supposed to be saying to me or what? Sheesh... dyaam.....

Good to see you. Hats off to the good old Adjutant! :)
 
Posted on 01-13-06 5:55 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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My three favourite posters in one thread! ooh my! :)
Dannboy,Sandhurst and Galt. Good to see you all again.

Mr. Galt, regarding this piece of work you have come up with as well as Rythm's ,most recent one about an accident too, well i have to admit i felt some measure of discomfort. I am for all my flightiness and candour, a very private person and would have felt a sense of invasion of privacy on being written about.True, this comes across as heartfelt and hardly superficial but i feel strongly on this matter. Indeed death seems like a distant enemy, unknown and unwelcome yet all around.And until the moment you are informed about the demise of that particular person,he/she is alive.Going about their daily life,breathing,cooking,swimming,getting drunk, laughing at some lame jokes.. Who is to know what tomorrow brings. Live all you can...here is to life and colouring your memories a vibrant shade.

gone with the wind...
 
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जोहन ब्रो!
मुटु छोयो। सुँक्क सुँक्क!
(आयो टप्प टिप्यो लग्यो मिति पुग्यो टारेर टर्दैन त्यो। - लेखनाथ पौडेल)
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सान्दर्भिक लेख।

By Pratibedan Baidya

Death of nine Nepali students in less than a month has raised serious questions about the safety of young Nepalis in the United States of America.



From left, Nishma Timilsina, 20, Utshav Basnet, 19, and Bedija Kharel, 20
(photo source : startribune.com)


Seven young students who were pursuing higher studies in the United States to shape their future were killed in less than a week early this month in separate car accidents. As the news is very painful for every Nepali, His Majesty’s Government is yet to take notice of the tragedy let alone mobilise its machinery towards ensuring safety of the Nepali students.

Four students Amrit Dhital, 21; Prahlad Gurung, 22; Puskar Acharya, 21 and Subash Gurung, 20; were killed when a car they were traveling in collided with another vehicle in Texas, United States, last Friday (Jan. 6).

Subash, Prahlad and Amrit were studying at San Jacinto College, Houston, while Pukar was a student at the University of Texas, Tyler, according to the Nepalese Association of Houston.

The Association added that all four had arrived in the US on January 2004 through the Nobel Institute, a Kathmandu-based education consultancy firm that advises students to study abroad.

Amrit was a resident of Banepa and Subash, Pukar and Prahlad were residents of Kathmandu.

Just two days earlier (on Jan. 4), three more Nepali students, Utsav Basnet, 19, Bedija Kharel, 20 and Nishma Timilsina, 21, were killed when their car was hit by another vehicle on a southern Minnesota highway.

All three-- Utsav, Bedija and Nishma -- were enrolled in classes at Southwest Minnesota State. The students were off school on winter break, reports said.


In Memoriam: The school where Subash Gurung studied recalls its former student.
According to the state patrol police, the three were not wearing seat belts, and their car was hit when the driver tried to make a U-turn from the right shoulder of a two-lane highway.

For a young student from a developing country burning with high ambition, America offers a vast ocean of opportunities. For many parents in Nepal, sending their kids to the US for higher studies is a lifetime ambition. But little do they realize that once out of a “closely guarded society” like that of Nepal, young students are least prepared to a life of freedom, hard work and technical advancement as in the US.

Talking to Nepalnews, Milan Dixit, principal of Rato Bungalow School, a leading private sector-run school in Lalitpur, said, “Lack of proper orientation and discipline among Nepali students are main reasons for such accidents in the US.”

“We were shocked after the news that Nepali students were killed for not following traffic rules. So orientation should be compulsory for them before going there,” she added.

Officials don’t have data of how many Nepali students are currently studying in the US nor is there any mechanism—both from the government or private sector—to orient young Nepali students to what type of life style they will be exposed to once they land abroad.

Students need not get permission from the government for studying abroad, as they can directly contact the foreign university and start enrolment process. They only need recommendation from the Ministry of Education to buy foreign currency to finance their studies.

“Private educational institutions and consulting firms, which charge large amount of money for facilitating enrolment of Nepali students for foreign universities must provide them orientation about basic safety issues while studying abroad,” said Mrs. Dixit.

Most of the students remain unaware about safety issues like road safety and environment abroad. “Young students are usually unaware about lifestyle in an alien. So they need orientation to cope with the situation in a completely different place,” she added.

Dr. Saubhagya Shah, an anthropologist who studied at the prestigious Harvard University of the US, says latest accidents are a tragic and big news for Nepal but in the US they are normal incidents. “Thousands of people die in America every year in road accidents, in such incidents unfortunately some Nepalese were also killed this year. A small mistake by an individual can cost a number of lives as the speed of vehicles is usually very high in the America.”

Shah, however, points towards growing negligent behavior among Nepali students once they step out of their homeland. “Most of these students were residing in the US for more than a year. So, they must have had enough opportunity to apprise themselves about the lifestyles there,” said Shah. “More than orientation, the issue is negligence among young people, including Nepalis, to follow traffic rules and regulations,” he added.

The number of Nepali students enrolled at U.S. colleges and universities grew by 11 percent last year to 4,861, according to a latest report published by the Institute of International Education (IIE).

When contacted by Nepalnews, an official at the US Education Foundation in Kathmandu said his office helps aspiring Nepali students to find out suitable universities and colleges. “Issues like traffic rules (in the US) usually don’t surface in such discussions,” he added.

Gandhi Pandit, a lawyer who practiced in New York before deciding to return to Nepal a few years back, told Nepalnews that if the accident had occurred due to the mistake of other people, family members of the deceased could claim for compensation. “If the accident had occurred due to the mistake of others, they can claim compensation on the basis of the impact of death upon family members,” said Pandit.

“Family members of the victims can also claim for insurance (if the deceased had insured himself/herself,” he added.

But neither family members nor educational consulting firms advise Nepali students to buy life insurance policies.

“Nepali students are risking their lives in the absence of appropriate orientation. Though some educational institutions are starting to provide orientation, it is not sufficient and needs to be expanded,” said Mrs. Dixit.

As long as young Nepali students are not given proper orientation and practice risky behavior out of negligence or out of temptation, such tragic news will continue to pour in from across the seven seas. nepalnews.com Jan 13 06
 
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Soory about the lose!!!!! Very heart touching and emotional indeed!!!!!!!!!
 


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