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Sex : Only for men ?? | Oct 01, 2005
- By Raj

I always wonder when I hear that sex is all for men only. What men do is run behind girl. and if asked why? Simple answer is for sex. Men always look for girl. Men ya all men are same ..and when women are free to say anything they call all men are pig. This amuse me ,Is sex what men think only? Sex is promoted by man only? Isn?t It equal for both man and women? I think if man think about sex all the time, its women who make them feel and think about it all the time. With her gesture with her dress up and movement such a way so that people can look at her. Man think to have a thief eye on her but she always know who is watching her because she is conscious and moreover she herself made the man to watch her.

Even during intercourse women enjoy more then a man do. But it is always said that women is just a toy for men who have to be in bed with men as its male dominated society. Our society never been a male dominated its always been dominated by women when it comes to sex and exploitation. Women always hold the remote control of all the action that man do. From ancient age to this modern age whatever man do, they do for women.

Its always said that man?s brain full of sex and they cant come out of it. Actually sex is very natural thing and its equal in both man and women. Now question is why man come forward first to express the desire. The reason behind it its women who hold the remote control and press button and program man?s mind such a way that poor man can cant do anything but come forward to express his feeling. Now again women can take advantage of this moment and say see this pigs don?t have anything else to do but sex.

Our society will be balanced if women accept the reality that they are also equally involve in all the desire that man have. I don?t mean to blame women for whatever happing around but I just want them to accept the reality and take equal responsibility for whatever happening around. Stop blaming man for everything. Work together with man and don?t try to take all good that is happening due to women and whatever worse happening is due to man.

I know lots of women wont be agree with me and will comment about me saying ?this is another pig?. Few feminist(so called) may try to have dialogue with me, surly not in good manner but the way they start their normal conversation about man. We all know women love man and Man love Women. And our all life is circling around this bond of love. Then why one go against other, when there is no other way but have to live together have to take part is everything that we do. So we have to think way and make life such a way where both man and women can exists together both don?t blame each other for anything.


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umm...a very complicated topic, roji. Better give up on it :D We shall never know.

oops! I didn't..it was written by a Raj? Ok Raj, that message earlier was for u. Sorry, Roji.

Bichara Raj hehe....

खोइ राज बाबु भर्खर बैस टेक्या हुन् कि जसो लाग्यो!!!के भन्न खोज्या राज बाबुले मैले त भेउ नै पाउन सकिन लु!!! कसैले भेउ पाए खुलस्त पार्दिम न लु!!!!:P
Nirman~*

Hahahhaa.. Astitwa team needs to hire a freakin editor!

No kidding...

Seema had left the poverty of her home village to work in Kathmandu. She was barely twelve when a smooth- talking flesh trader lured her to Bombay with talk of a better job. She hoped to become a film star. Instead she was sold into a brothel.

At first she resisted, screaming, crying and fighting off prospective customers, but the madam who ran the brothel would have none of it. She sent in a muscled toughie to hold the girl down while an old man raped her. The pain was so intense that Seema lost consciousness and had to be hospitalised for a week. After that it was back to the brothel where the other child prostitutes told her she could not win this battle.

But Seema's spirit was not broken. Nine months later she escaped for the brothel and boarded a train, hoping to eventually get back home. A soft-spoken lady promised help. She lured the young girl to Calcutta and sold her. Seema had only escaped from one brothel into another.

Now Seema appears resigned to her fate. She hits the streets of central Calcutta as soon as it gets dark and stands near a lamp-post soliciting customers. Her parents in Nepal have no idea where their daughter is. She does not have the courage to tell them, and anyway, they probably think she is dead. It is better that way...
(link to this complete story)

My wife and I are against masturbation and sex toys as well in our marriage, I had the same problem never havnig an orgaism during sex, but just last week it happend. We have been married 4 years & have 2 kids, I just thought I was destined to never be orgasmic! I understand now why ppl like sex so much, lol! Give it time and patience.

What Do Women Consider Good Sex?
By Melissa LaRicca
Women's Sexuality Correspondent - Every 2nd Tuesday


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Many men have asked me to describe what makes sex good for women. While I would love to be able to turn you all into Don Juans for the sake of women everywhere, the simple truth is that "good sex" entails different things for different women.
Therefore, I decided to conduct an informal survey, asking various women the question: "What makes for good sex?" Some of their answers may surprise you. In any case, you're bound to get a few ideas as to the little things you can do to make your woman squeal.

"Give me a roaring fire, a glass of Merlot, a chocolate souffle, and hungry eyes, and the rest takes care of itself. You just have to give in and let things happen."
- Lori, 26, chef

"I like a man who's able to take charge while still remaining a gentleman. Someone who can be firm and gentle at the same time. Show me you're a man by treating me like a woman. You know what I mean?"
- Felisha, 28, artist

"Foreplay, foreplay and foreplay. Good sex always starts way before the actual sex even begins. The guy has to seduce all my senses first. Whisper dirty things in my ear, kiss my neck, run your fingers up and down my back, and give me goose bumps. Make my clothes come off by themselves."
- Meredith, 24, waitress

"It depends what mood my man and I are in. Sometimes slow and drawn out lovemaking is the order of the day, while other times, we just rip each other's clothes off and get it on fast and hard."
- Chantal, 29, actress

"I love it when my boyfriend teases me before we actually have sex; it always makes it so much better. Like, if he kisses and caresses the areas surrounding my breasts and vagina, such as my upper torso and inner thighs, getting me increasingly excited, before going down on me slowly. And then penetrating me with only the tip of his penis for a while, until I am so hot and bothered that it would be cruel and unusual not to penetrate me completely."
- Kristine, 20, student

"In a word: spontaneity. The best sex usually happens when you least expect it. Like if you both get really turned on suddenly while you're painting the house and you end up having sex right there on the paint-covered sheets; that's hot."
- Gina, 31, interior designer

"I like it when the guy is in tune with me. I mean, start off slow and pick-up the pace gradually. Start with a position that allows us both to get comfortable and feel each other out and go from there. Just not forcing anything too quickly, I guess. Guys don't realize how far things can go if they're patient."
- Julie, 25, kindergarten teacher

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roji bahen, aapne to gazab ka taitle rakha re. yedi wisa hua to sab ke sab admi homosexual honge

Heavens Sake for crying out loud I am sick and tired of telling the "Astitva Team" to hire an editor! Okay, I understand that this was a public opinion probably not written by a journalist or whatever, but arent u supposed to edit it before publishing it? I could not read after the first half of the article as most of the things were going through my head and I started feeling the first sensation of a headache! Please, next time do edit it.. or atleast try to make some sense out of the article. I am literally pleading you.. cant take it anymore!

maybe you should offer them to do free editing.. so you can read :)

Borrrrrrrrrrinnnggggggggggg......................

Opinion is an opinion....it's biased. No one blames guys for everything.... but since raj u're a guy....for u it would seem like everything is blamed to a guy. For girls....everything is blamed to them. Why are guys hooked on sex..it's the girls fault!!??? Can't a gril dress nice coz they want to look nice??? Do girls always dress sexy to attract guys only??? maybe they just want to look sexy....to feel good about themselves. Have you ever considered that??

...........blah blah blah...so on and on it goes...

तालि तालि @ सिरिनननननन

क्या बात कहि। हाए राम, किसिका नजर न लग्जाए :पि

k ho, cerine timi....kt ko kuro bhane chii ta, buurlukka aauchu ne timi kuro garna. neta huney bicahar cha ke kya ho? nepali i-my ko sangathaan khole bichar ho :D

kuro ta gajab ko garyau kya.....मुलाई त एकछिन ठन्नबिन्न पारिदो।

*** Do girls always dress sexy to attract guys only??? maybe they just want to look sexy....to feel good about themselves. Have you ever considered that?? ***

लु, अब मेरो चै सोच बदलिने भो। १०० परतिसत ग्यार्यान्टि ... बुध्धि नि फर्को जस्तो छ :)

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