it all happened unknowingly.when i get first registered in sajha(way back in 2004),i didnt know actually i have to write some dummy name in user name.i gave everything real.when i got email from sajha,i realized my real name has been my user name too.well i started using it...sometimes i got bashing for using real name saying i m attention seeker(i have still those postings in my account).i remember 1 incident....when i sought for my nepali alumni(who were already in states)from my med. school  i got funny reply of advertising myself(though some of them were suppoertive too).i was shocked n i withdrew that thread.i asked myself am i seeking attention?my conscience said nope.sometimes when ppl get nasty on you,it becomes a matter of great uneasy among the ppl u know n live.

good side i have been able to track many of my long-lost friends through sajha.many of them have

sent personal msg in my sajha a/c after reading my thread.so its like bridge to my old heritage.someimes i think

of using some dummy names n quitting the current one.tara maya lagdo rahechha of the identity u have been using for almost four yrs.so for now living with this mixed baggage.

dont worry Bikash ..  at least you name is not like "aalu jasto " .. be cool dude

there is no pros n cons of usin any name..... u did use bikas kc as ur username, but who knows if ur real names is bikas kc or anythin else.....i can use prakash as my username.. does that mean my names is Prakash!!

so chill broda and have a happy holiday

yeah i realized that too. so just started over with a new username.

but in my opinion, that should b fine.

thanx for all the support

when i first created an account in sajha i used my real name. but people were rude and sarcastic............so i changed my ID!