Yeah "Just Do It" (by Douglas Brown) is a book that teaches you on how to keep the intimacy with your spouse intact even after married for several years.

Here's a scenario (applicable to many married folks here in sajha too):
Imagine a husband working his rear end off...living a stressful life...managing finances for his family/paying bills etc. Wife working as well...looking after a 7 year old and a 3 year old-- changing their diapers, feeding them, bathing them, putting them to bed and all. It's not a honeymoon phase anymore, is it?...You lack the interest and vigor to interact with your spouse that often as in honeymoon. No snuggling/hugging/kissing as often as it used to be...The fire/chemistry is not there anymore ...You feel good if you don't have to see his/her face anymore..How would you help yourself, your spouse and your family out of the risk of a broken relationship/marriage?

Solution (Experiment that works!): Have sex with your spouse for 100 days STRAIGHT hahaha...Everything will come back to normalcy (says the book).

So all you married lazy folks in sajha -- get some viagra pills and just do "it" (for 100 days straight!)

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/25783677#25074318


(A social topic for a change!)

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For once i thought it was Information Technology "IT" that saves marriage!

And i dont agree with msnbc. Sex wouldnt work. They'd be thinkin' about alimony all the time! ;) To itch his own.

LOL!
i guess the 'it' in "just do it" ramifies into compromises in other avenues of conjugal life than just/only sex (going for sex to save the marriage). compromise is the key word here i guess.

but i agree-- to each his own. it's hard to hug your partner, let alone cuddle and have sex when you feel like beating the crap out of him/her :P. emotions don't always make a nice swift 180 degree turn no? :D