Dont take me wrong guys! I am raising this issue even i dont wanted coz this has been killing me for last few weeks. I had stoped drinking for long time but I made fool of my self last week by drinking like moron. I couldnot even face her today

1. she is single mother
2. she is 10 yrs old son
3. she is having a affair now
4. the relation is going bad way
5. we became good mate
6. We both went out one nite and she was drunked as well, i went to drop her home....( she said" i love you").
7. I know her pain.........i am trying to avoid her but cant help
8. i know now what real love is? i am not wrong it has been more than 2 months and i know it is not infatuation.
9. I have became like vegetable......i got no energy atall
10. i hide myself from ppl
11. I feel like everyone is looking at me with strange eyes
12. Conclusion is i love her more than anything.............and this time i am sure
13. I am ready to make lot of sacrifices
14. i have even dicided to tackle issue with parents
15. i dont care what ppl says.........she got married in young coz of family pressure
16. I am sure guy used her ( i mean present bf)
17. Now, i am burning myself inside

Is it good on what am i doing?
i am no longer same moneyminded.........dont want to argue, make fun nor being crazy.

Is it a crime to fall in love with single mother...............( i have been watching song from dil ka rista movie>>.dil churale oh chahane wale for more than 200 times)
why why

Is it a crime to fall in love with single mother
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If you are ready to take the responsibilities then ''NO IT'S NOT A CRIME''. By the way why are you even asking such questions... you said ** i dont care what ppl says.........she got married in young coz of family pressure** Well if you don't care then why ask? By the way dont you think, personal stuffs should be solved personally and not in the public? Listen to your heart, you will find the answer. Good Luck...

Hey MM,
Personal feelings should be solved at personal level, hoina ra??? No hard feelings but just expressing my thought!!!
BE A MAN, TAKE THE STEP IF ITS WORTH IT.....Good luck!!!!

sorry guys! you are rite, i was too emotional.............san can u throw this thread in rubbish pls for me................it will really be appreciated.

Thanks to matrix and nirman.......see i just keep on making fool of myself..........i am so childish

Dump her, dude. If she is flirting with someone else, theres plenty more fish in the sea. Besides, she has a son who is 10 years old. If the kid was an infant, it would have been ok to be a surrogate father as he would not know that you were not his real father. But he is 10 years old, common, he might wanna start a fight with you. So again, find someone more suitable for yourself.

moneyminded,

I do not know why not much people replied in this thread, it is truly emotional, I can now see why you had been dissappearing from sajha for quite a while.

I am sorry to say but you are contradicting yourself, I do not see a reason why you shouldn't love a single mom, I can fall in love with a 85 year old woman, the chances could be as high as falling in love with Kirsten Dunst.

Love cannot be measured by any yardstick. If you really love her and the feelings are vice versa....I would highly encourage you to talk to your parents.

MM Bro: Just do it... We're all with you..

Go ahead Bro...
Don't give a F**K on what other thinks... Do as u pleased... Wish u all the best...

Be practical, love may hurt u for some moments...but dont get hurt for a whole life.

The politically,socially and perhaps morally correct thing for me to say: Go for it if thats what your heart tells you and you feel you can find happiness in this relationship. The times call for men and women to have broad minded ideas about sexuality, re-marriage, kids etc etc. As long as there is chemistry, what does past history matter?

The not-so-correct thing for me to say (but I feel obliged as a fellow human to say it) : If this is just dating then it's another story but if you are thinking about marriage, I'd say don't rush into anything that big without taking the time to really understand if this is what you want. The fact that you have doubts in the first place could mean there is something about the whole relationship that you are uneasy with. If you can deal with this uneasiness and move on over a period of time , well and good. If not, the uneasiness could eat you up slowly from within and consume the relationship over time. I have seen it happen to a lot of people.

What would I do if I were you : Trust my gut and go with my instincts - come what may!

Good luck!

:)

(PS: if any of this sounds unpalatable, please discard - I just thought the topic was very interesting and decided to post)

Captain Haddok:
You should be the official sajha relationship councelor... I am impressed...